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Blindingly Obvious - Hype1's Weekly Advice Column
Date: 2006-04-14 17:45:56
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Blindingly Obvious - This week, J the Temp fills in for T, who is on vacation.

I have started seeing a new girl and think I really like her. We met out at a work event one night, and soon enough went on a couple dates. I thought all was going well but then one night after I invited her out for dinner(with my friends and their kids) she has ignored me ever since. She is 22 and I am 32 - I feel I did something wrong? What should I do?

You have basically answered your own question. Dude, she’s 22, and if she’s like most 22 year old chicks, she’s not looking to pop out any Sean Prestons anytime soon. This ain’t Utah, buddy! She may think that since your friend is in the family frame of mind, that you might be as well. Maybe she just got scared away by this. Or maybe it’s just a coincidence that she decided that she doesn’t really like you anymore at the same time that you happened to take her out with your buddy and his young family. At this point it doesn’t really matter either way. If she were still interested she’d make an effort and since she hasn’t, your best bet is to move on. And next time, skip the family outings!

I’ve been in the same career for 10 years and feel I’ve taken it as far as I can but I make good money and my dream job is really far fetched. How do I get up the nerve to go for it or should I stick
with what pays well and I know?

What are you looking to get out of life? You wanna slave away for years at the same boring old job, save up to buy the clich? life so many lemmings strive for? or do you wanna live on the edge? Take life by the balls and do what you know will really fulfill your dreams? Of course you have to evaluate what level of responsibility you have reached in life before you lay it all on the line. Is little Billy gonna have to go without an education if your selfish little plan falls through? These are the things you must consider. Is money and security more important to you than doing what you really love? Myself, I wouldn’t want to be stuck doing the same job for decades unless I really, really loved it, but sometimes it’s easy to get caught up in the daily grind and we forget what it is we really want out of life. I say if the possible losses really outweigh the gains, then you should consider maybe just tweaking your current situation a little to make it more interesting for you. But if you have no little mouths to feed, or nothing to lose that can’t be regained, I say go full steam ahead and get exactly what you want out of your short stay on this planet.

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Why are some guys so obsessed with porn and threesomes?

The male’s main purpose in life is, and has always been, to spread his seed as far and wide as humanly possible so that his genes can create a legacy that will be remembered for many moons. In other words, dudes are all about sex, unless they have mastered the art of harnessing their normally overwhelming desire to hump anything with a hole. Add to this the fact that males are a largely visually stimulated sex, moreso than females who prefer emotional stimulation. Hopefully this explains why some guys are obsessed with visual representations of the act, as well as actual performance of it with multiple partners at one time. Once females can come to terms with the fact that this is merely how men are genetically predisposed, the faster we can all learn to coexist in a way that is acceptable to everyone.

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